When I ask this I’m not looking for patronizing reassurance, I’m looking for legitimate advice. Please give me genuine advice. The “looks don’t matter, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, no one is truly ugly” bs is just that BS and extremely unhelpful.
So I’ve tried everything. I’ve experimented with my appearance in everything. In my hair styles and cuts, to my skin care, to my workout routine and diet to my dress and style and nothing has helped me. My genetics, bone structure, my hair line, my height, my race, and my face shape are a combination that leaves me in a miserable state. I’ve officially given up hope that I could be considered attractive by someone. So realistically what are my options.
I want to experience a relationship and I know it’s shallow to say this as an ugly guy but I want to be physically attracted to my partner if I can. Is this even possible for me? Or do I just need to get used to the idea that I’ll never be sexually or physically attracted to whoever I’m with?
How can I meet people? Dating apps are useless to me and I’ve tried meeting girls through clubs and study groups and friends but they’re never interested. Girls barely talk to me as friends anyways.
I’m considering trying those dating sites made for ugly people but even when I try to match with girls that I’m not attracted to I can’t. So idk if that’ll work.
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