I (27) am seeing a girl (25) since about 3 months. We have sex like once a week. A few weeks ago we had a talk where we are going and I just said that I enjoy time with her and I am only seeing her at the moment (which is true) and she said the same but wanted me to tell her if I want to be exclusive. We continued to meet, have sex cuddle but since a few days she started to text less and seemed a little distant over text. She used to message me every day and send me random stuff. Now it seems like we are going back to the "hey how are you" smalltalk kind of texting like in the beginning. I also noticed that she messaged with another guy (it seemed like they wanted to meet up like "tomorrow is fine for me" but I dont know the context could also be a friend or whatever) when she was lying on my chest after sex.
When we meet she is all over me and she always want to meet up when I ask but she seemed less keen (at least in my mind). I dont know If I am overreacting because of some subtle things or she is pulling away. I dont want to be needy and push her away but it messes with my mind. I am afraid that she is getting bored. Everytime I get a message from her its like a push for my self esteem and when she does not it pre occupies my mind. I have the feeling that this is the beginning of the end even though everytime we are together everything is fine. I dont know if I am just panicking.
What is my problem? Do I have low self esteem? To needy? Not cool enough? What should I do?
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