I’ve been into him since I first met him a little over a year ago. Also, we’re in our early 20’s for background. He knew I liked him, and I told him I liked him, but he suggested we shouldn’t turn it into more because he thought we could be really great friends. He was right- we are great friends and we also get along with each others family and whatnot.
My lust went away for a while after that. Once I began seeing him as a guy who I could trust and who wouldn’t jump at any chance to get into my pants. I felt safe. I still feel safe and it’s the little things he does that get me. He’d make food with me and for me and also my roommates. He always walks me to my car at the end of the night. He’ll give up his bed for me to sleep in if I need a place to stay, he’ll make me drunk food at 4am hahaha. He will always call me out on my bullshit and I’ve realized he’s the only one who really can. He’ll tell me I deserve better or be straight up if a guy im talking to is a piece of shit. He knows what I need and deserve before I even know. He introduces me to his family and they always tell me how much he talks about me. The list goes on.
Anyway, every time I hangout with him, even if I am talking to someone romantically I still find myself comparing every guy I talk to. On my car rides home from hanging out with him I cry tears of joy because I feel so whole after being around him. He’s the one person that always knows how to make me feel special and seen.
I’m not sure why I’m posting this. It’s such a love note now that I’m reading it. But I guess I’m not sure how to proceed. It’s not like I’m dying to take action- because I know he’ll always be in my life. I just wonder if he’s ever dying to take action. He’s a very calculated dude. He knows I was very into him once and I refuse to ever say it again because I don’t want to mess up the friendship if that’s all that this is. It’s up to him.
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