Somehow I hate myself now but my story goes like this:
I matched with this cute girl. She was very beautiful with decent and travel photos, including hiking one which I liked it very much. The talk was awesome, bit flirty and bit negotiating for date. We cancelled the agreed date two times due work and certain problems. The first planned date was cancelled by her and the second one by me. In the meantime we had occasional talk for meeting up and again bit flirty texts. The third time for finally meeting up and having a date was suggested by her and we agreed for time and place. Finally !!( we talked for over 2 weeks ) And she even jokingly mentioned that it will be interesting to see each other after having bad luck for the previous two times. We agreed for the date on Monday and the date was set for Wednesday evening 8pm. The interesting part is now! Tuesday evening ( day before date ) I got message notification from her ( I assume for confirmation ) and I left it to open later. After 10 min as soon as I opened the app, while it was loading the screen I had phone call I had to answer. After the call I opened the app again and she was gone. No profile, no message
Now here are three possibilities for this case: - She unmatched me ( highly unlikely because she wanted this date- but yet possible )
- I accidentally unmatched her ( also unlikely but who knows what happened when I answered the incoming call- the chat list wasn’t opened ) - Its a bug from the program ( happened once and the match reappeared few days after )
When I think about this I wanted to exchange numbers before the date but this problem happened just before I did that. So right now I only know her name and her photos. Nothing else. I feel stupid for relying only on tinder and leaving the talk for the date.
Guys dont use tinder as primary app, and if you feel that the conversation goes the right way, please exchange contacts as soon as possible. I had lots of green flags and still kept safe. Don’t repeat my mistake.
Sorry for the bad english and the long post. Have luck and have fun all of you !!✌️
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