So me and my girlfriend (we're both around 25y/o) have been dating for a long time now, we even have moved together and, as a person, I can admit that I can be irresponsible sometimes, in small things ofc nothing as huge as like not paying rent whatsoever, but I have adhd...
even though I hate vitimizing myself about it, sometimes when i notice that i get carried away midst something rather important i can feel really down and get really mad with myself, but I don't think that, even though she says she does, she doesn't get it.
We were driving to our univerity together and because we don't drive there often, I was in charge of having the GPS on and giving her directions. Thing is, I distracted myself and didn't call an exit right, which I know can be frustrating for the drivers, but it really was just a 7 min difference from our main course (and we weren't late or anything).
She proceeded to rant about it, sure, and not talk to me for the next hour or so, even as we sat together while waiting for her class. She was just mad as hell and was yelling how come I wasn't able to focus for the most important second of the trip, and that she's tired of watching me getting carried away sometimes and for not paying attention... and I feel really bad because it's not me ignoring nor is it on purpose...
How should I approach the situation? She isn't the most friendly person in terms of engaging on a "let's sit and talk this out" situation, but I already knew that part of her and it doesn't make me feel any way about her, i just feel heavily misunderstood
Thanks in advance for hearing me out guys
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