I started dating my bf at 18, I'm now 20. He's a good guy, loyal and understanding.
However, I feel like I'm settling.
I come from a comfortable well-educated family. I’ve grown up in an Asian household where the man provides. I am currently getting an education and my future pay will be at least decent. I’m a good-looking women and i pay for 90% of things, and he's never taken me out. He isn’t naturally romantic and at times I wish I had someone to give me gifts. I don't mean birkins, or whatever. But small thoughtful dates.
He comes from a family with government support, and he has no higher education. He’s stuck in a job that won't pay him much more. I get jealous seeing my friends go out with just make-up in their bag, and their boyfriends taking them out to dinner, buying them cute gifts. Being thoughtful, verbally complimenting them and appreciating them. My friend gave her bf his fave pack of crisps and he exploded in joy. Telling her how lucky he is. I do that and more, I dont feel like im appreciated like that.
He's a good guy i wonder if that's enough? Has anyone else settled in this way and been happy? He does really love me though
TD;LR I feel like I’m settling and it’s creating me resentment
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