I am a 25 year old male. Despite being pretty fit, highly educated (PhD) and with a good job in finance I find it hard to talk and considering the lack of interest I am probably too awkward. There is a thing where I have my standards and red lines that I don't want to cross despite limiting my choice. For example I would never date someone who smokes as I do not enjoy the smell of cigarettes at all.
So I was thinking, I have some of male colleagues/ fellow PhD students my age who are looking for someone. Let's say I know a girl and think she would be a good LTR partner, but will never date her because let's say she smokes (and as I said I am not attracted at all to people who do) would it be bad if I invite her to a hiking trip or party or whatever with the back though that my colleague will be there and will have the chance to meet her (of course they might not like each other, but why not give someone a chance for love).
So, for the question will being a middleman (when I have the chance to not overdoing it) between men and women help me become more confident, understand the nature of relationships better and become better at starting one.
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