I’m a 29 old male. For some reason I’m not attracted to what many men are attracted to: feminine, cute, short girls. I do not feel sexual or romantic attraction towards them, and I can very well be a friend with one but they’re not really a partner material for me.
I’ve had one relationship before, and it lasted four years. My ex was my height, physically fit and slightly dominant. She liked guys with long hair and not too tall, so we fit each other very well. After we separated and I got over her, I started to look for girls to date, and met a few, but nothing ever developed and I simply don’t find romantic interest in them, other than that I don’t want to be single forever.
I even started wondering if I might be gay, but I’m definitely not. No attraction towards men whatsoever.
I realized that, even as a teenager, I always fantasized that my girlfriend would be tall and slightly masculine, someone like a peer to me. As if the traditional roles were a bit reversed. I don’t know why that is. I know it’s weird. I sometimes wish I had more common taste, so that I could more easily find people to date, but it is what it is.
It’s been two years single now. The dating pool for people like me seems near non-existent, but I was lucky once. How do I go about trying to find a compatible match?
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