Ok so, last week me and my partner of a year split up but he called it a “break” and assured me we’d get back together shortly. But this whole week I’ve been so stressed about it whilst he’s doing fine, going out with friends and ignoring me. We’re still in contact… vaguely. He will send me a good morning message, few messages through out the day and then a goodnight text, maybe a call. I care about him, deeply and still love him a lot but there is a little voice at the back of my head telling me that he’s just stringing me along and that I get my hopes up for no reason. I’ve only started detaching myself since yesterday. It’s going very well now and I’m doing way better. But there is this one guy I’ll call him s. We’ve been talking since mine and my partners “break” and he’s really starting to grow on me. He makes me think that maybe my former partner wasn’t as nice or as charming as I thought he was, and that I deserved better. S is a super nice guy too, he’s super sweet, talks to me often and has even agreed to see me in person to develop a better connection. I don’t know if I’m moving way too fast, if I’m only doing this because I’m still emotionally attached and grieving my former partners distance. I feel like I’m doing the wrong thing. But at the same time my former partner hurt me so bad as he was a liar, and he always used to ditch me to be with friends and drink. I really like s, I see us being together and me falling in love with him. But I also still love my former partner. I just don’t think I see us working out anymore. I don’t want to pick. I could be selfish and have both but I’d hate if someone did that to me and I don’t want to make someone feel like that. I think I’ll see how this goes before I take drastic measures 😂
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