A few days ago i matched with this guy on Tinder (21 yo, i'm 24) and everything seemed great, we have similar values and are looking for the same thing (a relationship). We talked a lot that evening and i ended up telling him when do we meet and what he wanted to do. He said we could take a walk and we didnt place more details. The next day or day and a half i already feel like he's acting colder but i thought he was just busy. Then i ask him for a specific day for the date and we set it for next monday.
Then today he texts me saying that he's not feeling it anymore and that he's not sure of what he wants. At this point i was sad af thinking that it was done for, and i told him "i appreciate that you told me". Then he texted me again a few hours later saying that he actually liked talking with me but that he didn't expect to "go so fast". I'm guessing he means setting up a date but i haven't answered him yet because i'm really confused.
He said we can keep talking and see what's next, but i was thinking that he just didn't like me anymore and changed his mind. I'm scared that that is how he really feels and that he's just saying to keep talking to not hurt me or idk what. For me when i feel a good connection with someone, i try to meet with bc i know it's pointless to talk forever and not meet... what do you all think of this?
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