I had been dating a guy since mid May. We’ve been on 7 dates, one just the past weekend. We had plans to go to a concert last Wednesday but he got stuck doing involuntary OT and gave me the tickets that he had gotten and told me to take a friend so they didn’t go to waste.
I had noticed the replies getting a little bit slower, but I chalked it up to nothing more than him being busy with a terrible work schedule (he works like 70 hour weeks, night shift too.)
2 weeks ago, he had sent me an invite to his bday party this coming weekend. I had even gotten him a little hosting present since I though a gift would be weird but I couldn’t show up empty handed. Something I went out of my way to order, something I thought he would really appreciate.
He bought tickets and invited me to a 3 day concert later this summer.
He bought tickets and invited me to a convention NEXT YEAR!
Just last week, I mentioned there was a state I wanted to visit and he told me “let’s go!”
I know my situation is not unique. I know this is done all the time to people. I know I shouldn’t have invested so much energy into someone this early. But it sucks.
Thursday, it took him 14 hours to reply to a text despite posting on his Instagram stories.
Friday, he told me if I was in the area he was working in, I should come say hi. I said I couldn’t but asked to hang next week when I’m off and he left me on delivered for 6 hours until I followed up and said something.
Saturday, I thought everything was fine and the convo seemed normal. He sent me something while he was at work. I replied. He replied with one word. I replied again and then nothing…
I had been the one initiating the convos and more engaged in the convos lately so I decided to not reach out. It’s been 2 days. He’s been posting on his Instagram (including dramatic quote on his story lol)
This just really sucks and I hate that I’m driving myself nuts trying to pinpoint what moment was the moment where he realized he didn’t like me. I just wish he would’ve told me because this feeling really just sucks.
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