So I (single M25) met a girl (22) in college. I always thought of her pretty good: beautiful, caring, intelligent, mature and so on. The problem is that I never been in relationship before and she had a boyfriend so I never tried to date her because of that. But one time at a party we were drinking and I took her on side to tell her something. Given the circumstances I went for a kiss and she didn't rejected me and through that evening we kissed a few more times. The next day she came to talk and said felt bad that she cheated on her boyfriend, but she also told me that thier relationship is toxic and she stays with him only for money. We talked about that and a lot of different topics for straigth 8 hours. From that point I wanted so bad to be with her and I kept meeting with her regularly which eventually leaded to sex. After that she broke up with her boyfriend. By the next month or so our relationship was great, I was really satisfied as well she was (despite not dating officialy). But the first problems occured from my side which I apologized for and I promised to never hurt her feelings again. She forgiven me. Something happened and this spark dissapeared which she was feeling the same and told me about it. I wanted to reignite it by going for dates with her but she kept rejecting saying she's too busy etc. Time flew by and I started seeing her red flags from perspective but also kept making different mistakes which I am guilty for and always felt bad for doing them until she got really mad at me. I wanted to speak with her about that maturely but she didn't answer for my apologies - that was 4 days ago. I don't know if should I give up or try to contact her again?
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