I don’t know what to make to this situation..
I met a guy from tinder, arranged to go for a drink, we got on very well, met up again that weekend and had a really nice second date. Arranged to go on a 3rd this weekend. We kissed and seem to both like each other.
I’m due to see him this Saturday, but today he text me asking about my dating goals. I told him. I want to date until I find someone I like, who likes me, and if the connection is there and we can both see something, we can talk about being exclusive. I don’t sleep around while dating, I literally go out to places on actual dates and meet people, and I don’t want to dedicate myself to someone I barely know, so I won’t be exclusive to someone I don’t know will be loyal to me back, or before I know if we can even be in a relationship at all in the future.
He respond that he only dates one person at a time, so he doesn’t want to see me again. I feel this is slightly rushed, asking to be basically exclusive after 2 dates, and cutting me off for not agreeing with how dating should go honestly feels cold and it’s upset me honestly. I instantly wanted to agree to just date him, because I do like him, but that’s silly.
Am I insane, or is that too much to ask after two meetings? I said in my response that if someone wants to talk about being exclusive then I’m open to it, and ideally want that with someone I like, but he didn’t ask me at all if I wanted to be exclusive or if I would consider that with him, he instantly said he thinks we shouldn’t see each other anymore.
I give up guys, give me some input
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