last week was my first week of college, almost instantly i met this guy who was trying to pursue me. based on first impressions he was very sweet and funny, and also very forward. he asked for my snap and my instagram the same day of meeting me, and he would sweet talk me and send me flirty messages while being in class, i’ll be honest, things happened very quickly. he was already initiating being in a relationship with me, and said to me that he’ll make me his, i tend to be attached very quickly so i already like the guy so much🥹. i spent majority of last week with him hanging out and getting to know him, he was really sure of making things official with me, so i agreed.. he sent me a really cute paragraph that i still read and he had already said that he loves me.
last thursday he wanted me to come over and stay the night with him, i was really close in doing so but something came up, i am kind of glad that i didn’t. but last friday i did spend the day and most of the night with him, things did escalate sexually but we had expected it. i was on my period and he still didn’t mind fingering me, we tried to have sex but he didn’t fit😅 i had a good time with him and i thought it was reciprocated, but over the weekend he was distant with me but claims he was in a “different headspace”.
when it was time for college i questioned him about it, he turned so cold and told me he feels that things sped up too quickly, which i agree with, but he was dismissing how affectionate and loving he was toward me in a short amount of time, how quickly he got my hopes high, and making me feel stupid for believing things would work out between us. it caused me to have a breakdown at college that i had to be sent home early, i was crying so much thinking of how many dickhead men i’ve let in to my life and tread all over me, he already knows my vulnerability but i blame myself for trusting him so easily..
he is still not being clear with me, leaving me on delivered for several hours and making me wait to know what he really wants. the last time i heard from him he told me he wants to go back to being friends as he felt things were too lust driven, and he wants to maybe try a relationship again after a week but at college he doesn’t speak to me anymore and avoids me like i don’t exist, it hurts so much so i don’t know if i should make effort. he messaged me today and i asked him if he is done with me, he said he isn’t and he doesn’t want to approach me until next week to talk about things, i don’t know if i should wait on him or if i should let it go..
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