Met a guy on a dating app in the town he lives in. I live two hours away but spend alot of weekends there because I have family and friends. I was honest about that from the beginning and I said if he wasn’t interested I understood. He said it wasn’t ideal but he wanted to get to know me still and thought there was still potential. He seemed serious about dating, said he was looking for a relationship and asked my intentions which were the same. We texted all day for 3 days expressed that we were starting to like each other, said he couldn’t wait to meet me and I was worth waiting for. On the third day of texting, things got pretty sexual but we were both into it. After that, he hasn’t ghosted me but he has stopped texting me and only sends me Snapchats not engaging in conversation when I try. I asked him if he was still interested a few days after his change in demeanor and he tried to assure me he was but didn’t change his actions. If he were using me for sex or to get off wouldn’t he be talking to me at night? Hasn’t said anything sexual since.
He seemed serious about getting to know someone and dating but has changed his entire demeanor since that night. Not sure if he’s stringing me along looking for someone that fits his life better or if I’m in a category he only views as hook up although we never met. We were supposed to meet for a date this upcoming weekend but he hasn’t mentioned anything about it and I’m not sure if I should bring it up. I did like him though and he told me he liked me, I’m not sure how to approach it. Just confused by his actions they’re backwards of what I’m Used to.
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