For context I'm a 32F, I have 2 kids, one a preteen & one turning 3. I decided after the last few situations I've had after getting close to someone just to be told they're not ready or can't handle it yet that I would download tinder & just fuck the first cute boy I liked. Well I did just that & 3 weeks later, he's still around. I had kind of already accepted fate & thought we would hook up & he would ghost me but even though he is in school full time he still makes time for me & genuinely does things differently than I'm used to. Like setting up plans to hang out the next time before he leaves, mentioning he talks to his friends about me, talks about things in the future like, when we go do this. So it's been nice & the sex is amazing. He accidentally slept over one night & it was ok in the morning but he mentioned how he didn't want the kids to get attached too soon cause he's had trouble in the past dating moms. But I completely understand that nor do I want to put him in that position nor am I even comfortable letting my kids around someone new. We seemed to agree & be on the same page that we should get to know each first before he is around them. But in my situation I don't have friends or family around to watch my kids so I mostly have them 24/7 cause our friends/family are 4 hours away & I'm working on daycare for my little one so basically the only time he can come over is after bedtime which is 9:30. Which has been fine, but last night he came over & we watched a movie & did the deed which he told me was hot but while we're cuddling he just casually mentions he would stay the night but the kids & went on about how he didn't want them to get attached to him too soon. I was quiet for a bit & he asked if I was ok & I said yeah I just need to think about this before I respond. As new as this is & maybe in due time it will tell but my gut feeling is telling me to just end it now. I understand his hesitancy & told him I am too cause I don't want him to see that intimate side yet but at the same time I can't help but think this is a waste of time & just end it now.
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