My recent ex-situationship (33F) who ended things with me in early July randomly sent me (29M) a funny meme after 1.5 months of me initiating actual social media/text no contact (tried to stay friendly after the breakup and just stopped messaging after a bit).
She ended it cause life circumstances/bad timing (personal circumstances, family, children, career, school, etc.), which was tough for me but ultimately a blessing because I hadn't had enough time to do self-work after having ended a long-term relationship (fitness, professional, personal goals) that I could only really do while single. Nevertheless, our situationship progressed really quickly to meeting family, "I love yous", spending a lot of time together, future-talk. This was all happening while we were both saying we didn't want anything serious/we weren't ready for it, but the spark/compatibility was so strong it was hard to resist.
Anyways, it was tough letting go but I came to grips with it and worked on myself this past while. I've made a lot of progress and am starting to understand what self-love actually means, and am finally getting to my happy place. I know she noticed all of these things while we were together and even commented that there are things that we can only work on when we are single. I really value what she taught me, and could see us rekindling when the timing is right for both of us (though I'm not going to wait around of course!).
Anyways, just wondering what folks think her intentions are (if any), and how I should proceed. She's awesome and I do like her a lot, so I wouldn't mind spitting some game at her at some point, but thus far have kept it friendly but short. I responded and joked back to the meme she sent me and wished her a happy Friday, which she responded to, but left her on read. Grateful for any advice or suggestions!! :)
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