I am 22 and about to graduate from a top school with a great degree paying pretty well - one semester left
I just got out of a long term relationship and cannot figure out how I am ever going to meet a decent girl again. I ended the relationship as I didn't feel very attracted to her for a while; however, I am slowly realizing this might've been a bad decision.
I am one of the strongest people in my region, smart, look good, but have very few friends.
On dating apps every girl I match with is very bad at keeping an interesting conversation and I rarely match with girls who I'd actually be interested in.
I do not really understand how to meet girls as I spent my past 4/5 years just studying and lifting every day without really partying or making many friends. My long term relationship was from tinder and she happened to be great; however, this seems like a once in a lifetime match the more I explore these apps. She actually engaged in conversation and asked me questions on the app, it was great. Further she was academically ambitious and is pursuing a graduate degree - something that I cannot find again unfortunately.
I am also pretty shy despite my looks.
I feel as though I've wasted my best years/chances at finding a girl by being in a relationship I didn't truly enjoy for so long. I feel as though I will have to settle for someone who I don't really like all that much, and who I like even less than my ex.
It is very difficult finding someone else and once I graduate I will be working remotely and will probably turn into a hermit. My program has the lowest gender ratio in the country of around 10% so I did not really meet many girls during my studies.
Any advice on what to do is appreciated, it feels as though I blew an amazing opportunity (university) and can no longer find anyone who I like. Some weeks it feels like I'll never even meet anyone who likes me despite past interest from girls.
Looking at my friends it truly seems like most people settle for someone and never find someone they actually like which is causing me lots of unhappiness lol
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