My friend and I were hanging out, and she was telling me about how she recently broke up with her boyfriend, and how it was negatively affecting her. I felt bad for her, but didn't have any intention of dating her, even though she was now available. We later smoked a joint and hit a cart together, and she asked me to cuddle with her. I always avoid flirting or making advances on people who are intoxicated, or while I'm intoxicated, because being high or drunk can impair your judgement. Regardless, I cuddled with her, since we have done so platonically in the past. She told me I looked very kissable, and asked to kiss me. I knew I didn't want to be anything more than friends with her, and I knew we were both high, but I said yes anyways. We ended up making out, and she asked to be my girlfriend, and I said yes, my judgment being impaired at the time. I rationalized it because my 2nd boyfriend and I got together very spontaneously, and it ended up being the most serious relationship I had ever had. I'm realizing this isn't what I want, and I don't know what to do. How do I get out of this relationship while minimizing how much it hurts her?
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