I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now I’m a senior she is a junior and we go to different schools. I overthink a lot and always have been afraid of her talking to people behind my back because how my friends relationships have been. I did trust her still. She has this guy friend (senior) that she had before we got together that she only really saw at school. I mentioned him to her in the past and told me that they were really good friends (also he has a gf). Skip to right when school started back the juniors and senior roll houses and she went out rolling with them. One night when she went out rolling I asked who she was going with and she only mention her best friend, but in my snap map I could she she was with her guy friend her best friend and one more guy. When she got home I told her I was upset she lied to me and she just said she was sorry and it would never happen again. Finally sat night her school had a function and it was only for people who go to that school and it was an hour a way from her house in the country at night. She told me her mom was taking her and I belived her at first until I saw her guy friend picking her up from her parents at a gas station and then he turned his snap map off. Also around this time I had began to stop overthinking about him and began trusting him. She called me and I told her to tell her mom I said hey and she said ok. Then on the way back from the party they go to a macdonalds I know where it is and I know that it was closed that time of night. I let it go tho thinking maybe they forgot that. They were 12 miles from her dad’s house and location said she was in the parking lot for 45 min. When it said she was moving again I texted her what she got to eat she told me they were out of fried food and I said ok cool also aren’t they closed and have been for an hour. I don’t remember what was said next but she said she would call me soon. When she got home her guy friend turned his snap map back on and I watched him leave her neighborhood. She called me and we talked for a while and she mentioned she had been drinking and then I asked her what the hell is going on I told her I knew that he had driven her and asked why they were in a closed macdonalds parking lot for so long and if they had sex. She told me that after they went through the drive through and couldn’t get food that his heater in the truck was messing up and he tried to fix it. For 50 min???? She was 12 miles from the house and it was 42F outside. Why spend that much time trying to get it to start working again if they are only 12 miles away from her house. Her excuse for lying about her riding with him was everyone was already on the way to the party and she was out with her parents (ik she was because she was eating with them) and that she asked him to take her and she knew I would get upset if he drove her so she lied and told me her mom was. She apologized for lying to me and said she loves me and understands if I don’t trust her anymore and that she feels horrible that there’s nothing to she can do or say to make me believe nothing happened between them. I texted him when she went to bed about the whole heater thing saying what was his fix for it because my friend had the same issue and he told me he was having an issue with it and what she said he had to do to fix it lined up with what he was saying. I don’t know what to do. I love her so much and I just can’t break up with her. Rn all I can think about doing is just let her try to rebuild my trust in her and try to forgive her for lying. Also I even thought about asking to go through her phone and look at there snaps. I know a lot of people know here will tell me to dump her but I just want to know if there’s anything i should do that doesn’t involve that.
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