so, 2 months ago I met this guy and we met every day for about 3 weeks until i had to go back to my home country. after I left we messaged every day, but very quickly I found he was a very dry texter and he barely replied in general. the chat had no content nor emotions and in the beginning I tried to put some energy into it, but it didn't help so I started just matching his energy.
then, this saturday, it's like someone flipped a switch and I want to know what the cause could be. I have one idea, but I can't tell if that's a reasonable assumption. so, I was very busy on Saturday so I only saw it a few hour later, but he sent me a selfie with two of our mutual friends. I reacted to it, we sent a few messages back and forth, but since it was already very late for him, there wasn't a lot going on.
then, sunday. it started off like most times where we would just chat back and forth with some time in between every message. then, for the first time since I'm back in my country it feels like, we actually had a conversation. back and forth with minimal waiting times. most of the time it takes him hours to reply, but that day he replied so fast and we actually talked. not about emotions or anything, but we talked!! we only stopped because it was getting very late for him again. today it got less again, but I had classes all day so we didn't have much opportunities. but even today there have been more messages exchanged than sometimes in a few days!
now I'm just wondering what made him completely switch up and suddenly have an interest in a conversation with me? the only thing I could think of is the meeting with our mutual friends on Saturday. I must've come up at least once since he sent me the selfie and one of the friends later messaged me as well, telling me they've been out drinking. now I don't know what they were talking about, but could it be because of whatever they said? I mean if they really talked about me and the topic of communication came up, that could've been awkward. the friend and me don't talk every day, but every time we do speak the chat is alive and super fun, plus both of the guys actually asked me out and they know it. the other guy was always very sweet and protective so maybe he talked some sense into him?
or am I just overthinking it and he just had nothing better to do than talk to me?
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