I reconnected with a friend i knew at 16 he used to have crush on me. Quickly found out he was divorcing things started to develop and started spending everyday together and sleep overs. However, there was promises.He blamed his wife that crazy, ex was crazy… long story short. When i started seeing him casually there was no love bombing mostly he played the victim and i was feeling sorry for him. He has huge ego. Tried to walk out 4 times wnd he came back and manipulated me. When we started hanging out he was entertaining 19 years old and he was 46 of course later he said she is crazy. He called me all sorr of names i had to tip toe around him. If he found any of my hair on ground it was all sorts of name calling. I supported him financially as he was divorcing and his ex wife took all her stuff bought him furniture…. At the end a new girl popped up i went all anxious and kept pushing him with texts and very toxic way. Till he told me he never fell for me and he is in love with this new girl. And that im insane we were never together and he can do whatever he wants and this is not cheating. He twisted reality he told me that we needed to step back because of his divorce he lied. He was entertaining someone new. I was making alot of money and was great at my job. He even one time got physical with me. After all that he told me it was my fault and he did it on purpose so i wont fall for him. Also when i asked about money he said he is a victim and i thought i can buy him that’s why he was disappointed. Now im left after a year he entertained someone and i found out by instagram post. I am spiraling as i dont know what is real and what is not. Alot of things makes sense now. He was i assume narcissistic traits. When i faced him he said i did nothing wrong and u are insane not normal and that i have issues and anxieties and he did nothing wrong as he never promised me anything. I started googling his behavior and im still trying to make sense out of everything. Any words of wisdom is appreciated ❤️
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