Me (27F) and my boyfriend (30M) have been dating One year and Half. And we have been on and off due to him breaking up with me due to us having constant fights.
This last time he broke up with me and I had found out he had gotten a message from a girl he used to have sec with telling him happy h birthday and he responded saying “thank you that means a lot to me heart)
She then proceeded acouple of months or something to text him saying that she was going to be in town if he wanted to see her. He didn’t respond (apparently) but he never told her he had a gf…. I had also found out he managed to get into his old phone and back up photos of his ex girlfriend into a private vault… that broke my heart..
I told him for me to continue he needed to show me he wanted to be with me.. -post me.. he never wanted to post me -phone passcode (he was very secret with it) -delete the album (there are nudes in there) -don’t communicate with exes he’s had sexual relationships with..
He then proceeded to tell me that he wasn’t sure if he wanted to continue to be with me.. that he loved ne and my kids (we live together and he has been a huge part in my kids life’s) but that he wanted to also be single to not be controlled but that he wanted to be friends and me not see other people..
He says he needs to loose me to see what he has.. because he knows I’m a good woman but isn’t feeling content.
This broke my heart but I didn’t let him know. I been trying to be cool and collected and let whatever happens happen for a reason.
What do I do?
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/dWXaTi8
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment