Ok so last year I (22M) met a girl (20F) online in a game. We started texting on Discord, then after a random 2 month hiatus I messaged her on her birthday and from there we got back to talking. Over those few months and even during the hiatus I honestly couldn’t stop thinking about her. We clicked very quickly personality wise, and we share a good amount of morals.
But we’re on 2 different halves of the country and we haven’t met up in person yet. I’ve told her that if we were actually to date (she’s basically implied she likes me because she would say “we need to get married” or “not until we get married” or even call me “bf” or hell even “husband” I found it a bit odd but wholesome at the same time. She even told me I was cute smart tall lol. I find her attractive and even told her (“you’re very nice”, etc) too but here’s the thing
Those nicknames.. she kept going with them no matter how many times I said we should meet up in person if anything first. Not saying she said it everyday but she did genuinely like me. Don’t get me wrong I’m flattered. But idk why she kept doing it even though I told her to relax on it.
One day last month I called her out on it and she said “nvm. Friend” then deleted the “husband” nickname. We haven’t spoken since and a part of me feels bad because heck even if we don’t date she was a great friend to talk to game with and share stories with.
Now.. much closer to me in person I’ve also met / know a few gals that I would be interested to date. There is one girl (22F) I took out for coffee and tbh even if she doesn’t reciprocate feelings, I’d be honored to have her for a good friend. (Though there was one time she touched me on my shoulders behind me when she came to say hi so idk if she’s just being flirty friendly or what) But I don’t know if I should go for one of these in person girls or should I try again with the online girl.
I told my parents and they think I should forget the online girl, but I’m not one to cut off friends no matter what they do to me.
What do I do, folks?
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