Hey, I need your help. I (19M) am dating this girl (20F) I met at a university event a few weeks ago. We've really been hitting it off, but I'm not sure what to do now.
Our dates so far: - 1st date: Low-key in a cafe; the conversation went great (we talked for like 4 hours and we both didn't realize it) and she was really pleasantly surprised I paid for her order. - 2nd date: Christmas market; drinking mulled wine, walking around and eating at a cheap restaurant we randomly found - 3rd date: In my apartment; baking cinnamon rolls, talking, just having fun in general (nothing more, because she had to leave late in the evening due to a trip she had planned, starting the morning of the following day); I gave her an orange rose, which she really seemed to like, there was already some physical closeness involved, but nothing more. Later, right before her train departed I went for a kiss and - while I think we were both surprised - she seemed to like it. - 4th date: 3 hour-long book cafe date (we're both really into books) during the day (we both have kind of a busy schedule and we just wanted to see each other again). Later, again at the train station (we really need to find a different spot to do that), I told her I really liked her and we kissed again, this time a little less spontaneous.
The problem is: We are both back at home with our parents over the holidays and have other things planned, but we have already made plans to meet on January 3rd. How do I make the next move? I don't want to push it and she seems like the kind of person who maybe wants to do it slowly, but I also don't want to "let the moment pass" (if that makes sense?). Also, I think we're both kind of inexperienced. I know, ideally, communication would be best, but I really have no idea how to approach this lol
I also feel like I am way too boring for her, but that's a different story haha
Thanks!
(Hoping this doesn't break rule 2, but this is also more of a general question)
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