I’m a 25M and a few weeks ago I was at a bar and met a girl 21F. We got to talking, I bought her some drinks, we danced together, and made out on the dance floor. In our discussion we did exchange numbers and she followed me on Instagram. The following night I figured I’d text her just to see where things were at. First text to her was the typical last night was a lot of fun we should go out again sometime text. To which she quickly responded saying “yeah it was very fun!”. To follow that message up I said that the drinks we got were 🔥 (yes I used the emoji) and suggested that we definitely gotta get more one night. These drinks were very unique and they were a center point of our discussion at the bar so I figured I might as well recall that over text. Well she didn’t respond to that message and it’s been 9 days. I’ve made no attempt to contact her since because I figured it was probably a lost cause. I should add that I do think there’s a maturity gap based on our ages and she seemed intimidated at times during our discussion and actually asked me if I was okay with her age compared to mine since she’s still a college student. She does still follow me on instagram though and did view my most recent stories which was of my birthday celebration that took place last weekend. Meeting girls in bars is not typical for me and I’ve been ghosted before but never after getting a response like this where I referenced a second meeting and the girl responded favorably. So my question is was the bar make out just drunk nonsense and is this a rejection? Also if anyone thinks it’s not a rejection how should proceed with messaging again without coming across wrong?
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