I just left a workplace I have been at for 3 years. Got along with the team great and left on good terms.
Anyway, there is this girl who I worked along side with at the old job which I got along really great with. We had a similar type of humor and had a lot of fun moments together (while working). About a year before I left the job we also started hanging out more outside of work - going on longer hikes (just the two of us, seldomly someone else would join as well, but the majority of the time it was just us).
Anyway, after I told her I was leaving the job (around Nov 2024), she teared up and said she is really sad to see me go. When we had the new year's party at the previous workplace (in Dec 2024, I left at the end of that month), we also had an agreement to get drunk at the party (which we did lol) and just have a lot of fun to make it a party which we could both remember fondly (which we also did and danced a little as well). She sort of broke down at this party in front of me and another coworker because she was very sad to see me go - I reassured her that I want to stay in touch after I leave the job and that we will still go hiking if she wants to (me, her and another coworker even talked about going to Abu Dhabi this year for a trip), and she was in a better mood after that.
So, after leaving the old job I have kept in contact with her over text, just talking about how the new job is and talking about random stuff, and we have also gone hiking once since leaving the old job (at the end of Dec 2024). We have another hike scheduled this week, and have generally talked about which hills we wanna conquer in the future.
I always get the vibe that we click pretty well and that she genuinely enjoys hanging out with me. She also laughs at a lot of my jokes, and we feel comfortable enough with each other to the point that we can talk about more personal things with each other (like family or future plans, or just general life stuff like apartments, jobs, career paths, etc.). I am not sure however if she sees me only as a friend or if there is anything more to it. I would like to ask her if there is a chance she likes me more than just a friend, but haven't mustered up the courage to ask her yet.
Any advice or opinions from an outside perspective would be much appreciated. I tried to be as objective as I possibly could, but if there are any more questions, please feel free to ask.
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