I (F24) have been seeing this guy (M24), and we just had our fourth date on Valentine’s Day. He’s incredibly kind—always opens my doors, pays for everything, and is a hard worker. He’s also cute, tall, has a great job, and is planning to buy a house later this year.
For Valentine’s, he picked me up and brought me flowers, which I absolutely loved. Then he let me choose between going to 1 location or another. After the activity date, we went and got food. He’s usually a bit shy and nervous at the start of our dates, but he warms up after a bit. After that, we went to a bar for a drink. Overall, I had a great time.
When he dropped me off, we were sitting in the car, and I initiated a kiss. We’ve kissed before, but only quick pecks—this was the first time trying anything more. That’s when I realized… he doesn’t know how to French kiss properly. I could tell he felt shy and embarrassed, and he even admitted, “I don’t know what I’m doing, but we can practice.” I responded back saying “it’s okay” in a nice way and thanked him for a nice date.
I’ve never been in this situation before. I’m a pretty experienced kisser, and in past relationships, I’ve always been with guys who knew what they were doing. Maybe that’s why I like him so much—he’s not as experienced, and he doesn’t play mind games like some other guys I’ve dated. I sometimes think that maybe it’s a good thing but then it also makes me think he doesn’t know how to have s*x in bed either or maybe he’s not good at it and I will have to teach how to do that too.
I still like him, I find him attractive, and we text every day. But how do I navigate this? Has anyone else had to teach a guy how to kiss? How did it go? Any advice?
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