So I (M20) have never dated, asked out, done anything sexual or romantical ever. Part of that is because I have a stutter disorder (stutter), and it makes me scared to ask women out or try to flirt/be witty or anything.
Apparently although I do not make moves, women have made moves/flirted with me and I'm oblivious to them. I told my friends recently about in high school how this girl that I sat by, who I liked ran her fingers through my hair and was playing with it a bit and told me how she liked my hair, and all I said was "thanks". This isn't a recent one, but I'm still as bad as this.
I can't remember other examples maybe as bad as this, but even since high school has ended I'll be out doing stuff with my friends and maybe I'll be talking to a friend of his gf and i guess im not realizing that some of these girls are trying to get me to flirt back (I'm not realizing theyre flirting) or maybe they're flirting with me and my friends have told me before how I "fumbled" or "bro, how did you miss that sign"
How do I quit being so oblivious to when women are flirting with me? Should I maybe just face my fears of stuttering badly and just try to be witty or flirt even if idk if they are?
Also I just wanted to end this off by saying the stutter that I'm talking about, i'm not saying like I stutter on one little word and then I'm fine, like I will be stuttering for like 10 seconds on one syllable of a word (like s-s-s-s-s-stuttering) sometimes and sometimes it's not as bad either but I never know how bad it's gonna be till I speak.
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