At this point i'm convinced that it's a me problem and i'm not good enough so i've just given up on the idea of finding someone completely because i don't have the time or mental capacity. I'm 24f Indian okayish looking and i've talked to a lot of guys who were just looking for validation and someone to talk to with no intentions of a relationship at all (met all of them mainly through dating apps). Last guy i went out with turned out to be a total player and manipulator and wasted 8months of my time. At this point i'm convinced i'm just a magnet for liars/cheaters/emotionally unavailable men which is sad because i always date with the intention of something serious and put in full efforts.
So my question to you guys - especially the women here is - how are you finding people who actually not want to kick them in the balls and how are you finding people who actually want to date?
Context - i don't have a lot of guy friends i've known for a long time so it's not as if i'd have a friends to lovers situation as well. Never been set up by friends either.
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