My friend and coworker F28 is dating a man that pays everything for her including regular trips and now she’s moving in with him rent free. I feel frustrated because she’s someone that is ok with using men for her benefit, isn’t loyal, and doesn’t really treat him with respect, yet somehow he told her he loves her. On the other hand I’m someone that values love over money, tries my best to treat people I date with respect, honesty and communicate as much as I can, yet here I am still single and being mistreated by the people I date.
I understand a lot of people are attracted to others where they feel the need to earn their love and validation because of unhealed wounds or trauma but It’s still hard to witness first hand. My friend has told me things like how she acts uninterested when he talks about things, she’s not physically attracted to him and cringes at the thought of having to cuddle him. She said she hopes he’s not going to be home a lot when they move in together. He has also disrespected her by talking about how attractive other women are to her. They will be going on a trip where that same girl he talked about will be there with her boyfriend and I’m just wondering how she puts up with that and doesn’t care. I should mention before they became official they were in an open type of fwb/relationship? Idk it sounded very confusing and messy. But now they’re getting serious and saying I love you to each other but I can tell she doesn’t mean it . We went out a couple weeks ago and she was talking to and dancing with multiple men.
How do I cope with the fact that she’s not a good partner but somehow gets men to fall in love with her and pay for her life, but I try to be a good person and struggle to find love.
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/YIZHJuh
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment