Well how do I begin. I've basically been single since I was 20. I've had a few flings, one night stands and a handful of relationships that didn't last. For the past 2 years I've basically said Fuck this ill just die single and avoid the bullshit.
Well im 30 now and I have no social life because all my friends are married off have kids having kids. Etc or they have their careers.
I am to be blunt lonely as hell.
I've spent the past few weekends at home with nothing to do.
Who am I? I am a 30 year old male with a decent paying job who lives on his own and is very independent. I am not the most attractive guy. (Over weight but I'm working on losing it with a strict diet.)
my good friend and co worker has had success on Tinder and Bumble. But he is more extroverted skinny and he just gets matches.
I've had a few matches but they don't ever reply to me or in the case of bumble don't initiate contact.
Meeting women in real life is not much better. I won't date co workers. Been down that road before. But last Friday I met up with a girl that is friends with a mutual friend. We chatted for a bit and I had to leave but the conversation was going well. I asked for her number and if she would be interested in going out. She said yes and gave me her number(its not a fake and confirmed with our mutual friend.) she hasn't replied (seriously if you're not interested say so its not painful, doing that hurts a bit ladies.)
The last woman I met in not online was a coworker we had a 2 month thing till she called it off and that was 2012.
With no social circle to draw from and my terrible looks not helping online what are some options im not seeing?
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