I (18F) guess my situation isn’t really “dating,” or casual dating because we haven’t defined anything. But at the moment, I’m having a hard time with this sort of thing. I’ve been talking to this girl (17F) for a while, and I didn’t think she liked me but the other night I told her I liked her and she told me she liked me and that she’d thought the first few times we hung out were dates but then ended up thinking I didn’t like her. Then she was saying how now we can go on real dates and communicate and stuff. Which is all amazing, and I’m ecstatic.
But the problem is there’s someone else too (18M). We met at freshman orientation a few weeks ago and we’ve been talking constantly. I like him and he likes me and we both are looking forward to seeing each other when the semester starts, and we’re even in the same dorm.
So basically, I like both of these people and they both like me. I don’t want to drop either of them until one of them wants to be exclusive, but I don’t know how to let either of them down or even if I should let them know about each other. I guess on the bright side I have a bit of time since I’m abroad until August, so I won’t see either of them for another month (and I won’t see the guy until the semester starts).
This seems silly, but any advice would be appreciated. I’m just not really sure how to go about it because I’ve never had multiple people interested in me.
TL;DR - I like two people who both like me, we’re not dating since we haven’t defined anything and I can’t see them again for another month. I’m not sure how to go about “dating” multiple people though.
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