Back in March, I liked this girl but I never had a class with her but we sat a huge table with our big group of friends during lunch. For a week, I just kinda sat a few seats away from her and I'll try to get her attention but I failed. I then told my friends that I really had feelings for her but they had to keep a secret until my one friend yelled it out loud in which I had to run off somewhere. A few days later, she then gave me her number and I talked to her for a little bit and we really got along.
Her personality is so calm and down to earth and our conversations are really interesting, she's just really fun to talk to. Back in like April or so, we would talk nonstop and the things we talked about ranged from anything, embarrassing stories, film, politics, hobbies, etc.
We then went out to some cheesy laser tag and had a lot fun but stuff kinda went downhill from there. Right after her mom dropped me off, apparently she wanted a hug but I didn't notice. The very next day, she told that she felt sorry that she lead me on and how she just wanted to be friends. She had to tell me on two random occasions. Like any normal man, I actually respected her and hope we both find the right person, sure it was hard to deal with at first but it made me feel better in the end.
While we aren't dating or anything like that, I love her so much and so interested in her that I wish if we had time or if I had the confidence, you know, I could ask her out.
I often imagine myself bear hugging her, giving her words of encouragement, asking questions about how she feels and what's going on, if it's very cold, I'll give her my coat, having our own house and we are both sitting on our couch watching movies and having a great time, etc.
But then again, none of this is obviously not gonna happen anytime soon and I'll just have find someone else and hopefully she'll find the right person too, someone that's better than me I guess.
Right now, we're cool but I tried to talk to her but she never responded.
I hope this would inspire someone to try to get into relationship without being a forceful weirdo and it doesn't always to be about being a couple, this also applies to friends aswell.
Any advice?
Edit: We actually talked today, it was about nice guys and whatever.
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