This is more of a venting post but would like to know if I was in the wrong here.
This guy and i dated for a bit during the pandemic but i moved away for school and so we couldnt continue. it was casual.
after i moved away, he would text me sometimes and periodically check in to see when I was back in town and try to convince me by saying he would take me out to a nice place etc.
i did hang out with him a couple of times when I did visit but he never really seemed keen on planning a solid dinner or anything like that, and those dates were more like hookup dates.
anyway, im back in town and he has been asking to see me but given how we have known each other for at least 2 years now, i thought he would at least try to plan something (he works a great full time job, not poor) but the best he came up with was getting a coffee and going for a walk.
In the past, maybe I would accept it because he's available, but i thought of how im accepting such low ball effort and decided to cancel it altogether. the weather has been sizzling and i had zero interest in going for a walk anyway.
after i cancelled, he sends a text about how i was being rude and wasting his time etc and best of luck etc...
was I so wrong???
he and i are both in our 30s
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