I have been talking to someone platonically on a dating app for 9 months. We met in December as friends but shortly after I told her that I want to try dating her for real. We're long distance so I shared plans for how we could meet up etc. She didn't turn me down but I could tell she was completely blindsided. We chatted like we used to for a few days afterwards, then she became really passive when I asked her travel plans for the year. Soon after I also stopped talking.
I understand she doesn't want to commit which is fine, but I do enjoy having a penpal that I can talk to on a daily basis. Right now she's probably feeling pressure from me. I'm wondering what the best course of action is to revert back to the platonic relationship if possible. Is it better to tell her that I'm not expecting anything from her anymore, or is it better to go no-contact for now, and then chat her up again without even mentioning the confession in a few months?
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