I’ve been talking to this guy since November 1. He messaged me through ig and from that day on we’ve been meeting up at my uni and we’ve been going on a lot of dates all around our city. Our last date was at a steakhouse, he paid for everything we went to the movies that was like our 10th date. He’s pretty awkward with me and doesn’t get deep at all. Only since our second date we’ve both said that we’re looking for something serious and told me that he’s never really dated before as for me I’ve had situationships and 1 bf but nothing serious that lasted long term since I’m only 19. He hasn’t done anything physical yet except for like hugging and holding hands with me so far and I can tell that he’s new to it because he seems really nervous. We have plans for this Saturday to go hiking however I am still actively going on dates with other men and texting them. I don’t know if it’s wrong since he hasn’t really asked me to be his girlfriend officially or if I should stop it entirely at this point because it would be considered cheating.
He’s told his family about me, his friends about me, wanted to go on a double date with his friend and his friends girlfriend, we made a shared Spotify playlist, he talks about “our” future kids, and we text everyday. I made an oath to myself to not be in a “situationship” longer than 1 month. He hasn’t gotten me flowers or made anything clear about if I’m his girlfriend.
What should I do? I’m just scared of being hurt and finding out he was talking to other girls the whole time and that’s why he hasn’t asked. Cuz talk doesn’t matter to me the actions are what matters
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