New relation pickle, what do i do?

Pre 20s

So I've met a woman yesterday; Although we knew about each other's presence for a couple of months now, when she was still in my class - that is until she changed. Regardless, i only spoke to her just now, and i think there's something in between us, but I might need your help to determine that. You see, i come to this sub to ask

What do I do now?

The situation is as follows:

Yesterday i met her irl, we spoke, it went well. I told her my bus number, because she asked me so- It is important to me, because then she proceeded to ignore (so did i) 3 busses of that number passing us by, we were at a bus stop; I think she didn't want me to go just yet, sweet. She also denied to engage in a conversation with anyone but me, we've been walked up on by some of her friends, they exchanged 1-3 words, and she went straight back to talking with me specifically - also sweet.

But now I find myself in a kind of a pickle, mainly because i wanted to ask that to her face- If we can go out this weekend - She told me she LOVES unhealthy foods, something i never could've expected by simply judging her appearance; She really exaggerated that "love", and she mentioned her favourite is kebab as well- I never ate a kebab, so I thought - Maybe we could go get a kebab this weekend!

Sure, it might sound good on paper

Here's the pickle

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She tends to respond 1-5 times a day, she isn't very active on the internet, which is great, but it comes with cons too - I tried catching her at a bus stop today to ask her if we could go out, have some small talk, etc; face to face, but sadly not only was she with her friend, but i also couldn't catch up to them before they got on the bus.

So I sent a message

Now, okay, okay, here's the pickle: What do I do if she doesn't read the message before the weekend ends?

What do i do if she's busy of seems like finding excuses?

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Message (approx, translated)

"Oh, okay (she mentioned she's busy today, so she can't talk, hence overthinking)

I just had a question

I'll be residing in x city during the weekend

Yesterday you were struggling to tell me your favourite kebab, but maybe it'd be easier if you'd show me?

Of course, if you're busy after this week, i'll understand"

This might get really akward if she doesn't read it tomorrow/sundays

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What do i do if she disagrees? (any reason)

What do i do if she starts acting weird? Like avoiding me, which i honestly doubt- She's a nice person, and there seemed to be something between us.. but it remains a possibility

And what if she doesn't anwser? We go to the same school..

And finally - What do i do if she reads it on monday? She usually doesn't use her phone during the weekend

Sorry for turturing you redditors, have a nice evening!

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