Before I begin I want to stress that this post isn’t meant to generate hate, I genuinely want advice/insight on this subject.
I’ve noticed in my time of dating that honesty is a rarity. Now, I partially understand why it can be scary for people; especially since I’m a man and there are a LOT of awful people out there. But frankly it gets to point, especially when I take steps to respect boundaries and to be as kind as I can be.
I know I’m not entitled to someone’s love, time, or affection.
But I’d like to think I deserve the decency to be told what they’re feeling, even if it means they can’t stand my guts and want me to leave. I always make it clear that I will back off or leave them alone if told when talking to someone because I do not want to be another man who makes them feel unsafe
But even when I make that clear I still get lied to or misled, I’m not sure if it’s somethin on me I can fix or if it’s just something I can’t control.
It just makes me sad that I’m seen as a potential danger even if it is a sad reality that many women live through, I want women to tell me how they feel without fear.
I’d appreciate some advice on how to fix it or at least learn how to handle it.
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