I (33 F) met this guy (29 M) end of 2024 and he got my number. I was really turned on after he asked for my number. He said he had a plan with me for New Year's that I thought would be romantic 🌹but it ended up being drinking and go to a hotel, which I declined. I was disappointed because I thought he had some sweet plan with me.
He was interested in sex with me and brought up how much he'd love to eat me out when we were on the phone. He also brought it up at work when we were facing products together (retail). And he was being kind of mean to me saying I was in his way and stuff.
So I said I didn't like him and was going to delete him. Didn't actually delete him though but I asked him in text to stop being mean to me at work.
Well after that he didn't text back but he was always nice at work and said hi to me. A few months later he was asking if I still had his number and admitted he had deleted my number because he thought it was over.
Now he's asking for my number again and is wanting to take me on a date. He is apparently a Christian now (kind of preached to me when I ran into him outside work a few months ago) and doesn't drink anymore (used to be an alcoholic, even got drunk with friends the new years he had wanted to spend with me). I wasn't sure how to respond when he asked for my number. I said "Why now" and I mentioned that he deleted me last time. He didn't really explain. It was just kind of awkward.
I still like him because he always makes me smile and laugh and sometimes he says sweet things like that I have a good heart, hair looks nice, etc. so it would probably be fun to hang out but I also don't know if I should be alone with him. I don't have dating or sex experience yet.
Anyway I'm not sure if I should be nice and give my number again. Kind of annoyed that he didn't try to go on a date when he first got my number. lol But then I'm like maybe I should just chill and let him have my number again. I just don't really know where it would go. lol
*Edit: title should have said 9 months not 6
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