In October 2023 I(22m at the time) at the time slept with a girl (20 at the time) with a girl from my martial arts school
The head women’s coach caught wind because she saw us out together on our first date
It was very short lived and we still keep in contact
Sometime during 2024 I switched jiu jitsu schools and now in 2026 I signed up at my original gym and paid a year’s membership.
The head coach asked to speak privately and be asked me about my relations with that girl he said she was married that “some students” had concerns about me training there.
I had no idea she was married and didn’t even think to ask given her age. She said she had broken up with a boyfriend 6 months ago but at 20 that’s kinda normal
He said he believes me and he has to talk to the other coaches to get a handle on things.
He asked me not to train for a week or two in the meantime and he’d let me know the outcome.
Yesterday I was removed from the gym after nearly 3 weeks of being kept idle
Instead of notifying me via phone, the coach asked me to come into discuss further follow up questions he had. Which was a lie he just told me, I was kicked out at the beginning of the conversation
I paid the year in cash and when I was removed they did not have my refund in cash at the moment I was removed in person. I was told that I had to wait up to 3 days to be Zelle’d
Just blown away because I wouldn’t knowingly sleep with a married and I was painted as the boogeyman
I asked the coach how they knew she was married and he just said “the women all have a group chat and they all talk”.
I’m not even sure if she was actually married and it feels like this decision was made via groupthink.
Overall just frustrated with the situation
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