Been talking to a guy for about 2 months and we have mutual feelings but based on his work, living, financial, and education situations he says he is not ready for a relationship and won’t be for about 8 months. To be fair, he is busy, changing jobs, saving for school and moving out all at the same time over the course of the next year.
Accepting we won’t be together, I asked to just start hooking up casually. He shared that he’s not a hookup culture person and turned it down and now says he doesn’t know if he even wants to be friends.
Was there a chance we were gonna date in the future? Like realizing he doesn’t even do casual sex, I realize he’s literally not gonna be trying to meet someone until he has his stuff in order. When I asked if he still wanted to be friends he told me that he was trying to do that but that he feels like I don’t respect that he has tried to treat me with respect while maintaining his own boundaries and thinks he needs more space.
Did I mess up? I mean that both in terms of is there and chance in the future when he is ready? And, did a fumble something potentially good? Thanks
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