I'm freshly out of a LDR relationship. While I'm definitely taking some time before dating again, I want to be able to flirt and feel attractive again asap. This was one of the reasons for the break up. not just sex wise, but it felt like my spark died while being long distance. Couldn't flirt with my partner so much because of distance, nor did I flirt with others because of my relationship, so that area of my life became both safe and monotonous.
I'm 30 and not expecting the attention I got at 21. However, all my life I've noticed the attention I get really depends on how I feel more than the state of my body or makeup and clothes. Feel cute and fun? Will get hit on my men and women, have guys stop me on the street to try to get my phone, even when I've been seriously overweight. However that's like 2% of the time, the rest of the time I feel meh, awkward and ignored. Fresh out of the relationship, it's pretty much 0. I know in part it's due to health issues, both physical and mental. I'm treating both. I'm picking sports back up, especially swimming and yoga. Other than that, I'm not sure what to do. I want to feel like myself again.
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