So I started seeing this guy last month. Met him for dinner and he asked me out for drinks for the next week. In between, we both went on 3 days vacations separately and kept talking to each other on texts, sending pics and stuff. The vibe was good.
We met again the next week, had ample of drinks and had an amazing time. Could genuinely feel the vibe and connection. Went back home and he messaged in the morning.
After that date, something shifted. The intensity of his texts went down. Like it went down to once a day, though he still used to send long texts. After around 10 days, which was 4 days back, he didn’t message me back for 36 hours and then just randomly messaged me about how busy he was and he went out with his friends for dinner and stuff. It didn’t happen for the first time because I can see a genuine decrease in his texts.
Yesterday, when he replied to me after 36 hours, I decided to cut the convo there and then. I was warm and polite but didn’t say anything for him to text me again, unless he really wanna keep the convo flowing. And honestly, he never came back after that.
I wanted to ask 2 things: Did I do the right thing? Because I don’t think anyone is busy for 36 hours and I don’t want to be with someone who can’t even take out 5 minutes of their day to message you back. So i just wanna give myself the benefit of doubt that he is not interested anymore and I should stop talking to him.
I wanted him to ask me out again because I just wanted to see if he’s interested. Had he done that, i would have surely taken the lead later on but he never asked me out after our 2nd date. Who should be planning the first few dates? Idm doing it but I see how interested the guy is, and you understand that from their texts.
Thank you and really appreciate your advice.
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