causing me insecurity about dating. i'm a late bloomer -- focussed on school my entire childhood, had a rough/really difficult time in college, and now out in the real world making good money and having a fulfilling career. i'd say i'm average looking, but i'm charming and intelligent and have had many guys ask me out. however i had a lot of inner healing work to be done and was too afraid to get too intimate / insecure about my virginity. i heard from people that dudes don't want to pursue girls that don't put out by the X date or whatever and that happened to me two times. my friend told me "if they don't have sex before commitment, then bye"
this happened to me last year. i told this guy i was seeing that i had never done it, and he said he didn't want to carry the burden of taking my virginity. we were seeing each other a couple dates and i asked about exclusivity, and he said let's try it, but he would get weird when i wanted to try it. i also saw texts from other girls when we were exclusive and he flatout ignored me / refused to talk about it when i stood up to him about it.
this made me feel like i had problems / caused me to question whether something about me was attracting the wrong guys...or was it about my virginity? idk
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