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I’ve (22) been in an exclusive relationship with my boyfriend (27) for a little over six months. We get along great, have great chemistry, and I’d spend all my free time with him if I could. However, about a month ago I got a gut feeling that something wasn’t right (he never did anything to make me believe this), so I snooped through his phone and found out during the first month of us becoming exclusive, he was texting one of his close friends saying he wishes they hooked up before we got together. Now of course I know what I did was wrong, but I feel like what he did was worse yet I can’t bring myself to confront him. I’m trying everyday to move past this, because I understand the relationship was still new and he didn’t technically “cheat”, but it still hurts.
Fast forward to now, it appears that he’s sort of hiding his phone, as in he will openly be on it in front of me, but every time he gets up or leaves the room he makes sure he brings it with him, and he sleeps with it under his pillow instead of on the nightstand next to me to charge. I have a gut feeling not to trust him, and I’m not sure how to go about this.
He tells me everyday how much he loves me and his actions usually match his words (he cuddles with me often, kisses me, we have sex almost daily etc) but I don’t know what to do about this nagging feeling. I will be extremely happy with him, we’ll be having a great day and this feeling will pop up and I will just distance myself from him and ruin our day.
Does anyone have any advice on what to do, if I’m over reacting about him “hiding” his phone or if I’m being reasonable?
TL;DR: my boyfriend never leaves his phone when he gets up or leaves the room, is he hiding something?
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