I’ve been dating a guy for 2 months and we decided to wait to have sex so that we could build a meaningful connection. He’s been so amazing to me, treating me like a true gentleman. He’s everything I’ve been looking for in a partner. Im starting to really fall hard for him. However, a few days ago, we attempted to have sex for the first time, where I learned he’s a below average size. Usually I wouldn’t care, but I could not feel him even enter, nothing. On top of that, the foreplay was boring, it ended up being a really big turn off/negative experience. I dont think we are sexually compatible.
Im really upset and on the fence because besides the sex, he’s so so great and I would love to be in a relationship with him, but bad sex is a deal breaker for me.
Im asking for advice on a few things... 1. Do I cut my losses? 2. If I stay with him, how can I approach this subject with him? Do I try to teach him how to please me in other ways/ non insertion? Do I even tell him I cant feel him inside of me? I dont know how to do that in a way that wont crush his feelings or manlihood.
We have only had sex once, I know this might be a bit premature to ask for advice but Im losing my mind over what to do.
I tried to keep this short and brief for you all, please ask questions if needed!
TLDR: met my dream guy, except I dont think we are sexually compatible. On the fence about what to do next.
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