Met this guy (he’s 30, I’m a 29 yo gal) on a dating app and we hit it off almost immediately. After a while we switched to texting and it was still great. Texting frequently throughout the day and eventually a phone call which went on for a few hours. Then we did a video chat and that was really fun, too. But ever since that video call, he has almost completely pulled back. I asked him if everything was good and essentially put it out there that he could tell me if he wasn’t interested anymore. I get it, it sucks but it happens! He said he overthinks a lot with dating and sometimes needs to step back and reassess to keep think back on how he views things. He did make a point to say he’s still interested but that he’s bad at communication.
Now, he might text me once or twice in a day and then nothing at all the next day. When he does text he’ll send paragraphs and tell me about his day (and sometimes ask about mine) but I have no idea what to make of this anymore. He’s a really sweet guy and I’m still interested but I don’t have any understanding of what to expect. I also don’t want to keep pushing him when he has asked for space. I don’t like feeling like the sad sack waiting by the phone, not living my life, but I don’t know what to do or how to ask for clarification.
Any advice?
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