Hi all,
So to keep a long story short, I [20F] am a uni student. Our school has an anonymous crush confessions account and I sent one in on a guy [21M] I thought was cute from a class of mine. He responds to the account and if they do that the crush account with send their profile along to you to indicate interest.
My question is, what do I do now? I don’t think I’m this guy’s type at all. I’m a very straight laced kind of hard working premed. I spend my weekdays in the books and the weekends at movie nights with my friends and writing up troublemakers as an RA. I’m a pretty silly dork and honestly that’s how my friends are too. He’s not like that. I’d consider him a cool and mature kind of person and I am not sure how to approach him and start a messaging convo. We’re going back into the fall so it won’t be too long until I see him again.
Here’s one thing I’m worried about. When we went home for quarantine in March, I was 15 lbs heavier. I have genuinely lost a noticeable amount of weight (and am now at a super healthy BMI, have dropped 2 sizes, and genuinely feel great!). Considering I only saw him at office hours (where everyone is a stressed underdressed mess) I can imagine his image of me is not as attractive as (I consider myself to be) now. I’m worried once he finds out it’s me he won’t be interested at all.
Never had a boyfriend and only minimal dating experience, so I need advice - guys, how would you want to be messaged in this situation, and girls, what would you do?
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