ok so im a goth right? I'm a good person I think (took a long time to be able to believe that), and I took a break from dating to work on my self esteem and some other stuff so I'm in a good place mentally. I have a decent personality and a sense of humor and damn it I'm even somewhat attractive. the most "flirting" I get is online by men who are twice my age who ask me if I send nudes, feet pics, or even if I would be willing to fly out to their house to shit on them (true story) because my look appeals to them. no one else ever tries to to talk to me because I'm intimidating apparently :( I've been in a toxic relationship where I was sexually assaulted multiple times so I'm very wary of intimacy which is what wards off most people. I'm venting but also I just need advice. are there people out there who want a goth gf for reasons other than kinks? how can I be less intimidating so people aren't afraid to talk to me? is it possible to find love as an asexual or if you've been sexually abused? what is love? baby don't hurt me. also any other goths have this problem? I just want a damn boyfriend who listens to playlists I make and gets excited about plants with me and doesn't want to just fuck me 24/7 :/
also forgot to mention that theres like 2 people who actually have interest in me but they live across the entire ocean. and long distance is horrible so its a real shame.
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